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Feeding
the baby (Breastfeeding) |
Breast pump |
You will need this if you intend
to breastfeed for long. They are manual pumps as
well as electric pump. Medela Pump-in-style though
expensive is a fantastic pump. A favorite companion
for working moms. Click here for guide to choosing
the right pump.If you are still not sure which
pump is useful, you can actually rent one from the
Breastfeeding mother club in Singapore (BMSG).
Robinson also sells the Medela pumps at very attractive
discounts if you are an Robinson card holder, wait
for the 15% discounts with 5% rebate before buying. |
Nursing Tops |
Not a must but definitely make breastfeeding
in the public easier. |
| Nursing Bibs |
Offers you privacy while breastfeed
even in public.
Available soon in our
online store.. |
Nursing bras |
The trick to buying nursing bras
is not to buy too early and too many at one go.
The reason: breast size fluctuates. Cup size is
the largest during the early days of breastfeeding
and will shrink after a few months of breastfeeding.
It is important not to wear under wired bra during
pregnancy and while you are breastfeeding. Wearing
under wired bras during pregnancy will affect
the development of milk glands resulting in clogged
ducts during breastfeeding. 100% Cotton is best
as it allows air to circulate and prevents yeast
infection.
There are many types of nursing bras: drop-cup,
front snapped. Personally I prefer the drop-cup
typed especially the one hand operational type.
See Links on how
to choose a good nursing bra. |
Nursing
pads |
An important item when breastfeeding;
breast pads help prevent embarrassment and staining
from leaking breasts.
Disposable pads are more convenient compared
to washable ones. Washable pads tend to be less
expensive in the long run than disposable, but
you'll need to keep up with the washing of them
so that you always have a clean, dry pad available.
Wearing wet pads for any length of time is not
recommended as this makes nipple conditions such
as yeast more common.
When washing reusable pads, be sure to avoid
liquid fabric softener as it can impede the pad's
absorbency. Fabric softeners sheets, however,
can be used in the dryer to soften the pads without
any problem.
Pigeon and Gerber brands of disposable pads are
quite good. (see links on more information on
"how to choose good breastpads")
See our Survival
products for Pigeon disposable breast pads. |
| Nursing pillows |
They are quite a number of breastfeeding
pillows in the market like Boppy and My Breastfriend.
A nursing pillow actually allows mommies to breastfeed
comfortably by supporting the weight of the baby.
My Breastfriend nursing pillow provides good back
support whereas the Boppy pillow has multiple
uses like supporting the back of the baby when
he learns to sit, propping the baby when he is
having nose congestion and it can even be use
for mommies to sit on to relieve post-partum pain.
See our Survival products
for Boppy pillows. |
Nipple cream |
To sooth sore and cracked nipples
during the early days of nursing. Lanolin typed
of cream is most common. This is available from
Medela (available at Robinson’s)
or BMSG
. Although it is stated that it need not be removed
before feeding, some reports actually say lanolin
might be harmful. So in my opinion, the best natural
remedy is to express some of your breast milk
especially hind milk, rub it on the nipple and
air dry your breasts.
(see breastfeeding
links on moist healing) |
Feeding
the Baby (Bottle feeding) |
Sterilizer |
To sterilize the bottles. I use the
pigeon rapid steam sterilizer, which allows 6 bottles
to be sterilized at one go. This sterilizer also
keeps the bottles sterilized for 6 hours if you
don’t open the lid. |
Bottles |
I prefer glass bottles to plastics,
which produces a weird plastic smell especially
after sterilization by boiling. A report published
by the World Wildlife Fund highlighted the dangers
of some plastic feeding bottles. (see
link)
The only glass bottle that I found in the market
now is Pigeon and Chicco brand. Many mommies complained
to me about the difficulty of getting glass bottle.
So I decided to sell it on my online store.See
our online store for Pigeon glass bottle.
You can use NUK teats on Pigeon and Chicco milk
bottles and vice versa. Avent bottles do not fit
teats from other brands. |
Formula container |
To bring formula out. |
Bottle scrub
brush |
Comes in different shapes and materials.
I like sponge to brush cleaner as it cleans better.
I found Aprica sponge brush durable. |
Bottle detergent |
For washing bottle. Pigeon detergent
is affordable and good. |
Teats |
NUK Orthodontics teats are better
for teeth development. Choose the appropriate
size for your baby. Buy two initially as you need
to change the teats when your baby grows. You
can use NUK teats on Pigeon and Chicco milk bottles
and vice versa. Avent bottles do not fit teats
from different brand.
Please note: Most teats must be discarded after
two months of use. Check the usage instructions
for your brand of teats. |
Tongs |
To remove bottles from hot water.
I boil my bottles and teats followed by sterilization
in the steamer. |
Nursery |
The Amby Baby
Motion Bed |
This award winning bed has been
endorsed by world renowned pediatrician Dr
William Sears as the “perfect answer
for the restless sleeper”. Babies dislike
static bed as it is unlike the womb environment
they were used during pregnancy. This bed is not
like the traditional sarong hammock; it was specially
designed with safety features and you can be sure
your baby gets a longer sleeping duration because
of its special design.
Why I choose the
Amby Baby Motion Bed?
My experience with the Amby Baby Motion Bed proved
so good that I decided to import and market it
in Singapore and the region.
Like most mother the first item I bought was
the cot for my baby. I even bought a beautiful
set of bedding accessories, dreaming that my baby
will love his bed. But things turn out otherwise;
my son screamed when he was placed in the cot
and refused to sleep. He would only sleep in my
arms. He also had reflux problem (most babies
do) and he burps out a lot of his feed. So I began
searching for the perfect bed. My search ended
with the Amby Baby Motion Bed from Dr
Sears website. I feel in love with the design
immediately and the promise that it could solve
reflux
and ensure longer sleeping duration for my son.
He was right.
Like every anxious mother, I was worried about
the safety aspect of a hammock but was assured
when I spoke to some pediatrician who saw the
design and told me that the design is safe.
First, the baby will not knock the head against
the ground or the wall as there is a thick mattress
to cushion the head. Second, the frame, which
is unlike the frame you see in the market, is
very stable.
Third, the height of the hammock from the ground
is only 30 cm.
Fourth, you can zip up the end of the hammock
to prevent the baby from climbing out.
The Amby bed is safety tested and patented in
many countries including the US, UK, Germany,
Australia, Japan, and Switzerland.
Click here to find out more about the Amby
Baby Motion Bed. This product is available
on our online store as
well as several retail outlets in Singapore.
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| Mattress / Crawling
Mat |
The bed is for baby to sleep.
The mattress or the crawling mat is for babies
to exercise and play. Tummy time for the baby
is extremely important for the physical development
of the baby.
Boppy pillow has a very good product known as
the Boppy tummy play to encourage babies to exercise
at the prone position.
See our Survival
products. |
Chest of drawers |
To place all your babies clothing
(Ikea sells good quality wooden chest drawers at
really good prices. Remember to buy real wood not
chip board or compress ply wood which will not last). |
Musical mobile(Battery
operated or wind up type) |
Black and white mobile are good for
newborns (Tiny love has a very good black and white
mobile with music). No point getting pastel coloured
mobile as babies can’t appreciate it until
3 months old (e.g Fisher and Price Star mobile). |
Soft bolster
or black and white soft-toy |
Comfort object for babies. |
Layette (basic
collection of clothes and accessories babies will
need through his first few weeks) |
1. |
Tops |
2. |
Pants |
3. |
Rompers / Bodysuit |
4. |
Sleep Suits |
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I would suggest getting front-button shirts instead
of pull overs. It is sensible to get several sizes
larger as kids grow at an amazing rate.Places with
good infant wear are:Mothercare (I love their bodysuits)MotherworksIt
is good to buy during Robinsons or Metro warehouse
sales as they really sell baby clothes at great
discounts. |
Receiving blankets |
To wrap the baby up. Some people advocate
swaddling the babies: some do not advocates swaddling
babies for too long. But I would say it all depends
on your child. My son hates swaddling so I don’t
swaddle him. Metro Orchard has a good range of receiving
blankets. |
Booties and scratch mittens |
Motherworks and Kidsmall sell mittens small enough
for premature babies. Babies should wear mittens
up to two months of age as babies at that age is
trying to learn the world around them through their
sense of touch. Try to get mittens and booties as
small as possible for newborns. Kidsmall and Motherswork
have a good range of tiny booties and mittens. |
Towels and face cloth |
I find it wasteful to buy expensive terry cloth
towels. In fact the best cloth to use is diaper
cloth, it is not only useful for diapering but to
towel dry the baby, wiping the saliva and burps.
As it is 100% cotton, it absorbs water very well
and dries very easily tooTo make small pieces of
face cloth out of a diaper cloth, I cut the diaper
cloth into smaller pieces and hemmed the edge using
tape binders to prevent the ends from frilling.
Each piece of cloth diaper can be cut into 6 pieces
of face cloth. |
Bathing and changing
accessories |
Bath Tub/ container for sponge
bath |
You should sponge bath the baby until the stump
of the umbilical cord falls off which usually occurs
in the second week after birth. You could also squeeze
drops alcohol from alcohol swaps onto the cord to
clean and dry it. Always use cooled boiled water
to wipe the areas around the baby’s eye and
face starting from the cleanliest part of the face,
which is the eye.Ikea’s bath tub is good and
inexpensive. |
Bath Seat |
You may want to use a bath seat when the baby
is about 4 months old so that you may use the showerhead
to bathe the baby. It saves water and time. |
Changing table and changing
mat |
It is actually not necessary but if you need
to buy one, make sure that it comes with a safety
belt to prevent baby from falling off especially
when the baby starts to turn.
From my experience a changing mat, placed on
the floor is more practical and safer.Click
here to link to articles on changing diapers. |
Small dish container |
10-12 inches diameter. To wipe baby’s eye
and face. Remember to use only boiled water during
the first month as newborns have very sensitive
skin. |
Bath sponge |
I find that Pigeon sponge bath is gentle on the
skin but cleanse efficiently. Some people prefer
to use cloth hankies. |
Cotton wool |
It is actually more economical to get big rolls
of cotton wool than balls of cotton and they work
equally well if you soak them in water. |
Bathing gel and moisturizer |
It is important not to use soaps directly on the
baby’s skin. Remember to place the bathing
gel on bath sponge first. Mustela has a good range
of bathing gels and lotion. The scent might not
be fantastic but the bathing gels are quite gentle
on baby’s skin. |
Cotton Buds |
Need to get the Pigeon brand for infants, they
are much thinner. |
Tummy binder |
To keep baby’s tummy warm. Metro sells this
binder at about $3 each. |
Sterile cotton swabs &
Cord spirit |
To use on umbilical cord. Some hospitals provide
this, so check with your hospital. |
Baby Wipes |
Baby wipes are convenient to use and most companies
produces wipes with moisturizing properties like
JoJoBa. I personally like the NUK and Pigeon wipes.
Nuk wipes are very thick and thus you just need
to use one piece on the babies bottom. I like
Pigeon's one hand operational system that allows
you to pull one piece of wipe at a time.
See
our Survival products for Pigeon wipes.. |
Safety pins |
For use with cloth diaper but if you are using
pilchers (pants worn over diaper) then this is not
necessary. |
Diapering necessities
Click here on article on “Diaper Changing” |
Changing table |
It is actually not necessary but if you need
to buy one ensure that it comes with a safety belt
to prevent baby from falling off especially when
the baby starts to turn. |
Disposable Diaper /
Cloth diaper |
Some people swear by cloth diapers as it is
more economical and they claim is able to “breath”
better than disposable diapers. For cloth diapers,
24 pieces is good enough for a start. Pigeon brand
cloth diapers are quite soft. Annaku brand is
more affordable. You can go to neighborhood stores
to get less expensive brands.
For disposable diapers, I find the brand Nepia
from Japan to be superb. In fact I found the quality
to be better than Pampers premium but it is rather
expensive. Nepia is available only from Seiyu,
Isetan and Meidiya. |
Barrier cream |
Popular brand are Drapolene, Desitin and Mustela
Barrier Cream. Like their names suggest, the more
barrier cream you apply, the better for the baby.
I found Mustela and Desitin brand to be the best
as they are very thick in texture and you don’t
have to use a lot on the baby’s bottom.
A tube can last me for 2 weeks on my exclusively
breastfed baby who poos a lot.
Note: Desitin barrier cream contains cod liver
oil so the smell might not be that pleasant. There
are TWO types of Desitin cream. The creamy one
which is available from most hospital pharmacy
is better as it is easier to be removed after
applying on the babies' bottom.. The non-creamy
one is available from Guardian pharmacy will require
more effort to be removed. Both offers the same
degree of protecion against nappy rash. |
Cotton wool |
Using wet cotton wool to clean baby’s bottom
is actually better than using baby wipes as wipes
contains fragrances and some babies are allergic
to them. |
Nappy liners |
If you are using cloth diapers,Pigeon brand liner
are good but expensive. Tollyjoy is cheaper. |
Changing mat |
You can get inflatable diaper mat from IKEA. |
Traveling necessities |
Baby sling carrier |
They are many advantages
in wearing a baby sling carrier. I can’t leave
home without it. They are many different variation
of baby sling carrier in the market. I used to carry
some of the slings and I found that the slings in
the current market to be too bulky at the shoulders
and they restrict arm movement. It does not allow
me to carry my bag on the shoulder. So I designed
the BayB sling.. It is a cross between the Maya
wrap sling as well as “cupping upper arm”
design thus allowing wearer to adjust the wideness
of the band. The BayB Sling carrier is made of high
quality non-colour fast fabric and durable rings,
which have been tested by PSB to carry a load of
up to 600kg. See our Survival products for BayB
sling. |
Pram |
Can buy this at a later date. I have a pram but
I don’t use it as my son hates the pram and
prefers the sling. So we use the pram to cart our
shopping bags instead during our supermarket outings. |
Car seat |
A must for all Singapore drivers. |
Hand wipes |
Use this to wipe hands before feeding the baby.
Pigeon has small 10 piece traveling packs.
See our Survival products for Pigeon wipes. |
Diapering pack |
Disposable diapers, cream, wipes and changing
mat (I am very conscious about putting my baby on
the changing table in nurseries so a changing mat
is a real essential for me. You can get a cheap
plastic changing mat for about $3. Available from
Kiddy Palace. |
Bottle cum warming bag |
Can use it to bring your expressed breast milk. |
Thermo flask /
milk bottles / powder container |
For Formula fed babies. |
Others |
Baby monitor |
Good if you are staying in a 2 story house but
there is no need if you stay in a one level flat,
as you can hear the cries of most babies. The newer
generation monitors like the Angel
monitors come with a motion detector to detect
the breathing of baby and if the baby stops breathing,
the alarm will go off. |
Thermometer |
This is very important. There are several ways
to measure the temperature of a baby. You can
use ear thermometer or digital thermometer.
Ear thermometer
: Measures the infrared heat of the eardrum, which
is very close to the temperature control centre
of the brain. Expensive but convenient.
Digital thermometer
: It is cheap and can be used to measure oral,
rectal, auxiliary. However, oral temperature taking
is not advisable for young children. Rectal measurements
are slightly higher then oral measurements. An
underarm measurement is impacted by room temperature,
so accuracy is more difficult to achieve. Underarm
measurements are lower then oral measurements. |
Nail clipper |
Do not use it on new born babies as the nail bed
is still fused to the tip of the nail. Use a scratch
mitten instead if you are worried that babies will
scratch their faces. However babies also need to
learn to feel so at some point those mittens need
to come off. Perhaps when you notice baby is more
aware so that he/she will not unknowingly scratch
their face. |
Chest of drawers |
To place all your babies clothing. |
Electric bottle warmer |
Avent bottle warmer is fantastic especially useful
in heating up expressed breast milk. It will not
overheat the breast milk. Overheating kills the
antibodies in the milk. I NEVER microwave the bottle
to heat up the milk as the milk might be heated
up unevenly and this can scald the baby. |
Windup mobile |
Black and white mobile are good for newborns (Tiny
Love has a very good black and white mobile with
music). No point getting pastel coloured mobile
as babies can’t appreciate it (e.g Fisher
and price Star mobile). |
Soft bolster or black and
white soft-toy |
As a comfort object for babies. |
Black and white cards |
To stimulate baby’s vision and mind. I started
out my son with Glenn Doman program when he was
about 1 month old. (Glenn
Doman) However you could also look into using
Microsoft Powerpoint to create affordable presentations
to flash to baby.(There will be a different page
on stimulating your baby. Stay tune) |
Rattle Mirror Baby gym |
Toys for babies. Most babies won’t appreciate
it until about a month old. |
Pacifier |
Only if you need it. For breastfed babies avoid
pacifier until 6 weeks of age when milk production
have stabilized to prevent nipple confusion. |
Electric flask |
Quick access to hot water especially during confinement
period. |
Laundry washing |
2 –3 Pails |
Good to have a separate pail for washing babies
clothes and the adults. Have a few pails to allow
soaping and rinsing of clothes. |
Nappy detergent and Nappy
softener |
If you are using a cloth diaper, Napisan is quite
a good powder detergent. |
Basket for baby laundry |
A plastic pail is usually sufficient. |
Clothes hanger for drying |
Hanger with clips. |
| Books |
Parenting and Babycare books |
The best you can do for your baby now is to
read. Many pregnant mothers tend to spend too
much time on pregnancy guide books and forgot
about babycare books. When the baby arrives, it
will be too late as you will not have the time
to read. So start your parenthood in the right
way by reading early.
see links for babycare
books which I find useful. |